{"id":5242,"date":"2021-05-31T13:24:54","date_gmt":"2021-05-31T11:24:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=5242"},"modified":"2021-05-31T13:24:54","modified_gmt":"2021-05-31T11:24:54","slug":"v-zajeti-lajku-a-hejtu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/2021\/05\/31\/v-zajeti-lajku-a-hejtu\/","title":{"rendered":"V zajet\u00ed \u201elajk\u016f\u201c a \u201ehejt\u016f\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-ck19dm-1f47572a187c763c0200027d253bfedd\">\n.flex_column.av-ck19dm-1f47572a187c763c0200027d253bfedd{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-ck19dm-1f47572a187c763c0200027d253bfedd av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kora58cl-29d2812375d590a54cbb2c65bf627566 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1>V\u00a0zajet\u00ed \u201elajk\u016f\u201c a \u201ehejt\u016f\u201c<\/h1>\n<p>Taky jste se na internetu n\u011bkdy p\u0159ipletli do n\u011bjak\u00e9 diskuze a nesta\u010dili se divit, jak na sebe ciz\u00ed lid\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eou \u00fato\u010dit? V\u0161imli jste si, \u017ee tam, kde doch\u00e1z\u00ed logick\u00e9 argumenty nastupuje agrese? Za\u017eili jste, \u017ee jste n\u011bkdy s\u00a0dobr\u00fdm \u00famyslem p\u0159idali sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor, radu \u010di koment\u00e1\u0159 a ten v\u00a0lep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b n\u011bkdo nepochopil a v\u00a0hor\u0161\u00edm zcela smetl? Za\u017eili jste pocit, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 \u201ejin\u00fd n\u00e1zor\u201c je v\u00a0o\u010d\u00edch n\u011bkoho zcela \u201emimo\u201c a v\u00e1m bylo doporu\u010deno, abyste nic nekomentovali nebo se \u0161li rovnou l\u00e9\u010dit? Pokud ano, asi si um\u00edte vybavit sv\u00e9 pocity, kter\u00e9 takovou zku\u0161enost prov\u00e1zely. Mohlo j\u00edt o l\u00edtost, rozmrzelost, ale i o bezmoc \u010di vztek. Na ty lidi, kter\u00fdm chyb\u00ed empatie, vst\u0159\u00edcnost v\u016f\u010di jin\u00e9mu n\u00e1zoru a nez\u0159\u00eddka i slu\u0161nost, i na sebe sam\u00e9ho, \u017ee jste se zase nechali zl\u00e1kat k\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9 akci \u010di reakci. Jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed lid\u00e9 se s\u00a0t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161inou dok\u00e1\u017eeme vyrovnat, obdobn\u00fdm situac\u00edm se (alespo\u0148 na \u010das) vyhnout, \u010di sv\u00e9 pocity vyv\u00e1\u017eit racion\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00favahou o tom, \u017ee nebudeme p\u0159ehodnocovat vlastn\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed na z\u00e1klad\u011b \u201ev\u00fdk\u0159iku\u201c n\u011bjak\u00e9ho nezn\u00e1m\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-b8o0hm-2350d2e1848df82de023e8bc19c878e8\">\n.flex_column.av-b8o0hm-2350d2e1848df82de023e8bc19c878e8{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-b8o0hm-2350d2e1848df82de023e8bc19c878e8 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-93cnve-6c369f50a325db96dbd5ad9ab3d73fe2\">\n.avia-image-container.av-93cnve-6c369f50a325db96dbd5ad9ab3d73fe2 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-93cnve-6c369f50a325db96dbd5ad9ab3d73fe2 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-93cnve-6c369f50a325db96dbd5ad9ab3d73fe2 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-5250 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-5250 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/27-1.png\" alt='' title='27'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/27-1.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/27-1-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/27-1-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/27-1-705x484.png 705w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-7tfpp6-751184a61d2efa1a79eedae05d8b1413\">\n.flex_column.av-7tfpp6-751184a61d2efa1a79eedae05d8b1413{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-7tfpp6-751184a61d2efa1a79eedae05d8b1413 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kora7udg-a6642087c20d49ee6d18758ad82ccbf0 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>D\u011bti a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed jsou v\u00a0obdobn\u00e9 situaci jako my. Pohybuj\u00ed se ve virtu\u00e1ln\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed, navazuj\u00ed tam kontakty, sleduj\u00ed \u0159adu slavn\u00fdch osobnost\u00ed, sv\u00fdch zn\u00e1m\u00fdch, youtuber\u016f, streamer\u016f a jin\u00fdch influencer\u016f, hraj\u00ed hry, sd\u00edlej\u00ed videa apod. Mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee se v\u00a0prost\u0159ed\u00ed internetu pohybuj\u00ed mnohem v\u00edce, jsou v\u00a0n\u011bm tak\u00e9 mnohem zraniteln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk u\u017e m\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161inou vyvinut\u00fd ur\u010dit\u00fd sebeobraz a nen\u00ed a\u017e tak moc ovlivniteln\u00fd n\u00e1zory druh\u00fdch na vlastn\u00ed osobu (i kdy\u017e ani to nen\u00ed pravidlem), d\u00edt\u011b a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed \u201em\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u201c svou vlastn\u00ed hodnotu pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm, jak jej p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed \u010di nep\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed vrstevn\u00edci, jak se o n\u011bm vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed, jak je popul\u00e1rn\u00ed v\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9 skupin\u011b, jak jej ostatn\u00ed chv\u00e1l\u00ed, obdivuj\u00ed, \u010di oce\u0148uj\u00ed. Virtu\u00e1ln\u00edm ukazatelem toho v\u0161eho jsou lajky, po\u010dty sleduj\u00edc\u00edch, obdivn\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e \u010di gify apod. D\u011bti sd\u00edlej\u00ed fotky, videa, statusy, pocity a vystavuj\u00ed se tak v\u00a0cel\u00e9 sv\u00e9 zranitelnosti reakc\u00edm a koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm ostatn\u00edch. A asi byste se divili, jak obrovsky to pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed, jak v\u00fdrazn\u011b to dok\u00e1\u017ee ovlivnit jejich aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1ladu i sebepojet\u00ed. (Mimochodem &#8211; v\u0161imla jsem si, \u017ee \u0159ada dosp\u011bl\u00fdch hraje obdobnou d\u011btskou hru na \u201ez\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed pozitivn\u00ed odezvy pro lib\u00fd pocit\u201c, tak\u017ee zauj\u00edm\u00e1 erotick\u00e9 p\u00f3zy s\u00a0dokonal\u00fdm make-upem t\u0159eba ve skupin\u011b v\u011bnovan\u00e9 otu\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di \u0161pul\u00ed namalovan\u00e1 \u00fasta i pozad\u00ed ve zna\u010dkov\u00e9m oble\u010den\u00ed ve skupin\u011b zam\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 na turistiku apod. \u00a0Nez\u0159\u00eddka se jako psycholog bav\u00edm t\u00edm, co v\u0161echno o lidech jejich statusy a fotky vypov\u00eddaj\u00ed).<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-6c4k6y-5d397df76896d02d72ff3e66f3cdd875\">\n.flex_column.av-6c4k6y-5d397df76896d02d72ff3e66f3cdd875{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-6c4k6y-5d397df76896d02d72ff3e66f3cdd875 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-46eulm-5f736e901dba7411e7a16c46ba160b11\">\n.avia-image-container.av-46eulm-5f736e901dba7411e7a16c46ba160b11 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-46eulm-5f736e901dba7411e7a16c46ba160b11 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-46eulm-5f736e901dba7411e7a16c46ba160b11 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-7  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-5251 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-5251 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/29.png\" alt='' title='29'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/29.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/29-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/29-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/29-705x484.png 705w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-3a25l6-f452e7f520891f53cb62756de3426599\">\n.flex_column.av-3a25l6-f452e7f520891f53cb62756de3426599{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-3a25l6-f452e7f520891f53cb62756de3426599 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-korab6vb-c6ce94e6979df5253d792fa2397b67c3 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Ale zp\u00e1tky k\u00a0d\u011btem. Ty dok\u00e1\u017eou b\u00fdt krut\u00e9 a n\u011bkdy dokonce i krut\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e dosp\u011bl\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159eci jen ur\u010dit\u00e9 reakce nezve\u0159ejn\u00ed \u010di cenzuruj\u00ed do p\u0159ijateln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed podoby. D\u011bti nedom\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed dopady sv\u00e9ho jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Hodn\u011b se p\u00ed\u0161e a mluv\u00ed o kyber\u0161ikan\u011b, tak\u017ee m\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee d\u011bti u\u017e dob\u0159e v\u011bc\u00ed, co d\u011blat a co ne. Ve skute\u010dnosti ale v\u00edme dost m\u00e1lo o tom, co d\u011bti skute\u010dn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed. V\u00edme m\u00e1lo o \u00fatoc\u00edch, vylou\u010den\u00ed ze skupiny, zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed, ur\u00e1\u017ek\u00e1ch, skupinov\u00e9m poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed a odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed, o doporu\u010den\u00edch, a\u0165 d\u00edt\u011b rad\u011bji nevyl\u00e9z\u00e1 mezi lidi, nezve\u0159ej\u0148uje fotky, proto\u017ee mu ani fotoshop nepom\u016f\u017ee, rad\u00e1m, a\u0165 jde na plastiku, k\u00a0psychiatrovi, nebo a\u0165 se jde rovnou zab\u00edt, \u017ee se v\u0161em na sv\u011bt\u011b ulev\u00ed (re\u00e1ln\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e). V\u00edme m\u00e1lo o pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, kter\u00e9 se s\u00a0takov\u00fdmi reakcemi setk\u00e1, kter\u00e9 se styd\u00ed o tom s\u00a0k\u00fdmkoliv mluvit, kter\u00e9 nev\u00ed, jak se br\u00e1nit, jak z\u00a0toho uniknout, jak se s\u00a0t\u00edm vyrovnat. A pr\u00e1v\u011b o tom je pot\u0159eba s\u00a0d\u011btmi mluvit. Pt\u00e1t se na to, kdy je n\u011bco ranilo, d\u011blat s\u00a0nimi aktivity, p\u0159i nich\u017e si mohou negativn\u00ed pocity samy na sob\u011b vyzkou\u0161et v\u00a0bezpe\u010dn\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed. Ukazovat jim, jak snadn\u00e9 je druh\u00e9mu ubl\u00ed\u017eit, o\u010d snadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je to ve virtu\u00e1ln\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed a taky to, jak zraniteln\u00e1 je bytost, kterou v\u00a0danou chv\u00edli nevid\u00ed a ne\u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed j\u00ed sv\u016fj koment\u00e1\u0159 do o\u010d\u00ed. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nemoralizovat, ale vyj\u00edt z\u00a0jejich vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f a mluvit \u201ejejich \u0159e\u010d\u00ed\u201c. Je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed vyu\u017e\u00edt toho, co sami sleduj\u00ed, nap\u0159. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-lPXPc667gw&amp;ab_channel=FattyPillowTV\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-lPXPc667gw&amp;ab_channel=FattyPillowTV<\/a> a nav\u00e1zat na to diskuz\u00ed \u010di n\u011bjakou aktivitou. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee to nezabr\u00e1n\u00ed tomu, aby se to d\u00e1le d\u011blo. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee to neochr\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 budou cokoliv sd\u00edlet. Ale budeme o tom mluvit, budeme na to upozor\u0148ovat, uk\u00e1\u017eeme, jak\u00fd k\u00a0tomu sami m\u00e1me postoj, pojmenujeme v\u011bci, o nich\u017e dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed sami moc nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed, uk\u00e1\u017eeme jim, jak v\u00fdrazn\u011b mohou druh\u00e9mu ubl\u00ed\u017eit a taky je m\u016f\u017eeme nasm\u011brovat na pomoc, pokud se jim n\u011bco podobn\u00e9ho stane. Ano, je to b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165 a bylo by iluzorn\u00ed si myslet, \u017ee tomu jsme schopni zabr\u00e1nit. Ale ud\u011blejme alespo\u0148 n\u011bco. Je velmi snadn\u00e9 \u201ekliknout\u201c a velmi \u00fa\u010deln\u00e9 se p\u0159ed t\u00edm kr\u00e1tce zamyslet\u2026 D\u011bti by m\u011bly v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee na\u0161e \u201elajkov\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c a \u201ehejtov\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c odhaluje to, jac\u00ed jsme my sami, ne jak\u00fd je \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00e9ho hodnot\u00edme.<\/p>\n<h5>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h5>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Taky jste se na internetu n\u011bkdy p\u0159ipletli do n\u011bjak\u00e9 diskuze a nesta\u010dili se divit, jak na sebe ciz\u00ed lid\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eou \u00fato\u010dit? V\u0161imli jste si, \u017ee tam, kde doch\u00e1z\u00ed logick\u00e9 argumenty nastupuje agrese? Jak se s takovou situaci vyrovn\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u011bti?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":5250,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5242","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychologie-motivace"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5242","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5242"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5242\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5254,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5242\/revisions\/5254"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5250"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5242"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5242"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5242"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}