{"id":4575,"date":"2020-11-16T08:00:33","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T07:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=4575"},"modified":"2020-10-28T15:06:42","modified_gmt":"2020-10-28T14:06:42","slug":"zaskolactvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/2020\/11\/16\/zaskolactvi\/","title":{"rendered":"Z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kgtgwteu-cc44607e2e7fa9aa12a9266f5c74962d '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1>Z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed<\/h1>\n<p><strong>\u010c\u00e1st norm\u00e1ln\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00edch a socializovan\u00fdch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch v\u00e1m bez mu\u010den\u00ed p\u0159izn\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkdy podlehli touze nej\u00edt do \u0161koly a vyzkou\u0161et si, jak\u00e9 to je, m\u00edt sv\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed a d\u011blat v\u0161echno proto, aby se to \u201eneprovalilo\u201c. Dal\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st to d\u011blala opakovan\u011b a najdeme i ty, kte\u0159\u00ed d\u00edky tomu \u0161kolu nedokon\u010dili. Kdy jde o ne\u0161kodn\u00e9 poru\u0161en\u00ed pravidel a kdy se z\u00a0tohoto mal\u00e9ho dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed st\u00e1v\u00e1 probl\u00e9m? <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-kgth0mrb-9bab9bb4f7e229aa2642d7b64d661237\">\n.avia-image-container.av-kgth0mrb-9bab9bb4f7e229aa2642d7b64d661237 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-kgth0mrb-9bab9bb4f7e229aa2642d7b64d661237 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-kgth0mrb-9bab9bb4f7e229aa2642d7b64d661237 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-4576 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-4576 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1.png\" alt='' title='4'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1-705x484.png 705w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/4-1-450x309.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kgtgxpi5-4dfd3e75eb7380cba8c569d1e0e05689 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Prvn\u00edm, nad \u010d\u00edm je nutn\u00e9 se zamyslet, kdy\u017e zjist\u00edme, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b tr\u00e1vilo tajn\u011b \u010das mimo \u0161kolu, je v\u011bk d\u00edt\u011bte. N\u011bco jin\u00e9ho je vyhnout se \u0161kole v\u00a0sedmn\u00e1cti a n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho v\u00a0sedmi letech. \u010c\u00edm ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed v\u011bk, t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pozornost je pot\u0159eba v\u011bnovat tomu, kde a s\u00a0k\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011b bylo a p\u00e1trat po p\u0159\u00ed\u010din\u00e1ch. D\u016fvod z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed je dle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru spolu s\u00a0v\u011bkem d\u00edt\u011bte t\u00edm nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm, na co bychom se m\u011bli zam\u011b\u0159it, a\u0165 u\u017e jsme v\u00a0pozici u\u010ditele \u010di rodi\u010de. Je t\u0159eba po\u010d\u00edtat s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nemus\u00ed mluvit pravdu, a to zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ve chv\u00edli, kdy d\u00e1v\u00e1 rodi\u010d \u010di u\u010ditel najevo siln\u00e9 roz\u010dilen\u00ed, k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed, nebo vyhro\u017euje. Kdy\u017e u\u017e se n\u00e1m d\u00edt\u011b sv\u011b\u0159\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee nebylo ve \u0161kole, nebo se to dozv\u00edme jinou cestou, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 zachovat klid, pokusit se nap\u0159ed zjistit podrobnosti a a\u017e pak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let o tom, jak situaci d\u00e1l \u0159e\u0161it. Nem\u016f\u017eeme toti\u017e vylou\u010dit, \u017ee za z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t strach. Strach ze spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f, z \u0161ikany, z\u00a0u\u010ditele, z\u00a0ne\u00fasp\u011bchu, z\u00a0p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, ale t\u0159eba i ze zapomenut\u00e9ho \u00fakolu \u010di refer\u00e1tu. Zjist\u00edme-li, \u017ee se d\u00edt\u011b n\u011b\u010deho boj\u00ed, hled\u00e1me na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b mo\u017enosti, jak jej podpo\u0159it, uklidnit, nau\u010dit takov\u00e9 situace zvl\u00e1dat nebo jim p\u0159edch\u00e1zet a pom\u016f\u017eeme mu \u0159e\u0161it to, na co samo nesta\u010d\u00ed. Krom\u011b toho, \u017ee to je mnohem efektivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed prevence podobn\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00a0budoucnosti, budujeme t\u00edm i d\u016fv\u011bru a vztah.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud se d\u00edt\u011b \u010di student nechali strhnout ke dni tr\u00e1ven\u00e9m mimo \u0161kolu kamar\u00e1dy, je na m\u00edst\u011b jej taky vyslechnout, zaj\u00edmat se o to, jak to maj\u00ed s\u00a0chozen\u00edm do \u0161koly oni, jestli \u0161lo o jednor\u00e1zovou z\u00e1le\u017eitost nebo o jejich obvyklou \u201ez\u00e1bavu\u201c, co spole\u010dn\u011b d\u011blali a rozebrat s\u00a0n\u00edm, jak\u00e9 d\u016fsledky bude m\u00edt to, pokud se to bude opakovat. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je tak\u00e9 pokusit se z\u016fstat v\u00a0klidu, ale p\u0159itom d\u00e1t najevo, \u017ee se jedn\u00e1 o n\u011bco, co nebudeme ani tolerovat, ani kr\u00fdt \u010di podporovat. M\u016f\u017eeme mluvit o pln\u011bn\u00ed povinnost\u00ed, o pravidlech, prosp\u011bchu (d\u00edt\u011bte i jeho p\u0159\u00e1tel), o motivaci, pro\u010d do \u0161koly chodit, ale i o n\u00e1sledc\u00edch chozen\u00ed za \u0161kolu.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-kgth0wkn-3185c12bd36c7ac14ccf3fa0852a6165\">\n.avia-image-container.av-kgth0wkn-3185c12bd36c7ac14ccf3fa0852a6165 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-kgth0wkn-3185c12bd36c7ac14ccf3fa0852a6165 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-kgth0wkn-3185c12bd36c7ac14ccf3fa0852a6165 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-7  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-4577 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-4577 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1.png\" alt='' title='5'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1-705x484.png 705w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-1-450x309.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kgtgy4q6-ee640a7e4fca4d015b54d1eef31b5902 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Jsme-li v\u00a0pozici u\u010ditele, je nutn\u00e9 informovat rodi\u010de, a to zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fdm jim d\u00e1me najevo, \u017ee n\u00e1s k\u00a0tomu vede p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1jem o jejich d\u00edt\u011b. Je pom\u011brn\u011b kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9, jestli se n\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed s\u00a0nimi nav\u00e1zat dobr\u00fd kontakt a domluvit se na spolupr\u00e1ci, nebo jestli n\u00e1s budou vn\u00edmat jako sv\u00e9 protivn\u00edky. Situac\u00ed, kdy u\u010ditel v\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nebylo ve \u0161kole a rodi\u010d jej kryje a omlouv\u00e1, za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed pedagogov\u00e9 hodn\u011b. Pokud k\u00a0tomu u\u017e jednou dojde, b\u00fdv\u00e1 t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 nebo nemo\u017en\u00e9 rodi\u010de pro spolupr\u00e1ci z\u00edskat. N\u011bkdy pom\u016f\u017ee sch\u016fzka s\u00a0druh\u00fdm rodi\u010dem, n\u011bkdy a\u017e informov\u00e1n\u00ed OSPODu a n\u011bkdy je ka\u017ed\u00e1 u\u010ditelova snaha marn\u00e1. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy vy\u010derpal v\u0161echny sv\u00e9 mo\u017enosti, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee za d\u00edt\u011b je zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm jeho rodi\u010d a pokud tuto svou roli odm\u00edt\u00e1 plnit, nen\u00ed u\u010ditel t\u00edm, kdo by ji m\u011bl a mohl \u201esuplovat\u201c. Pokud se n\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed domluvit na spolupr\u00e1ci s\u00a0rodi\u010di a p\u0159itom nav\u00e1zat i dobr\u00fd kontakt s\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1kem, jsou \u0161ance na to, \u017ee se z\u00a0vyhnut\u00ed se \u0161kole nestane dlouhodob\u00fd probl\u00e9m, v\u00fdrazn\u011b vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed. Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b se ale zvy\u0161uje \u0161ance na \u00fasp\u011bch ve chv\u00edli, kdy d\u00edt\u011b v\u00ed, \u017ee rodi\u010de se \u0161kolou spolupracuj\u00ed a t\u00e1hnou tzv. za jeden provaz.<\/p>\n<p>Vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed postoje, \u017ee jde o n\u011bco, co nebudeme ani jako rodi\u010de ani jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 podporovat, je podstatn\u00e9. Z\u00edsk\u00e1-li toti\u017e d\u00edt\u011b \u010di dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed zku\u0161enost s t\u00edm, \u017ee je u\u010diteli (v\u011bt\u0161inou t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edmu) jedno, kdy je a kdy nen\u00ed ve \u0161kole a omluvenky moc ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed a taky rodi\u010de nad t\u00edm m\u00e1vnou rukou a dodate\u010dn\u011b v\u0161e omluv\u00ed, je to jako bychom mu \u0159ekli, \u017ee povinnosti nen\u00ed t\u0159eba si plnit, dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed pravidel po n\u011bm nechceme a ve\u0161ker\u00e9 rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed nech\u00e1v\u00e1me na n\u011bm. \u010c\u00edm mlad\u0161\u00ed \u010di nevyzr\u00e1lej\u0161\u00ed je, t\u00edm hor\u0161\u00ed to m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt n\u00e1sledky, nehled\u011b na fakt, \u017ee v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se d\u00edt\u011bti n\u011bco stane, bude se \u0159e\u0161it nejen na\u0161e zodpov\u011bdnost, ale i na\u0161e sv\u011bdom\u00ed. Plat\u00ed tady ov\u0161em to, \u017ee pokud jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 d\u011bl\u00e1me zodpov\u011bdn\u011b svou pr\u00e1ci, v\u0161\u00edm\u00e1me si a \u0159e\u0161\u00edme p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, le\u017e\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u00edl zodpov\u011bdnosti za veden\u00ed a v\u00fdchovu d\u00edt\u011bte na jeho rodin\u011b. Nedovolme, aby ji na n\u00e1s rodi\u010de p\u0159esouvali a nenechme si vnutit my\u0161lenku, \u017ee \u0161kola m\u016f\u017ee za to, \u017ee tam d\u00edt\u011b nechod\u00ed, pokud db\u00e1me na to, aby tam bylo vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e9 a bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed. Je to p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm rodi\u010d, kdo by m\u011bl sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b v\u00e9st, p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b na n\u011bj dohl\u00ed\u017eet a v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se mu to neda\u0159\u00ed, vyhledat odbornou pomoc. Bude to tak\u00e9 on, kdo ponese d\u016fsledky sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edstupu.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159eji v\u00e1m, a\u0165 p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed \u0159e\u0161\u00edte co nejm\u00e9n\u011b a kdy\u017e u\u017e na to dojde, a\u0165 jste v\u00a0tom spole\u010dn\u011b se spolupracuj\u00edc\u00edmi rodi\u010di.<\/p>\n<h4>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h4>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010c\u00e1st norm\u00e1ln\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00edch a socializovan\u00fdch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch v\u00e1m bez mu\u010den\u00ed p\u0159izn\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkdy podlehli touze nej\u00edt do \u0161koly a vyzkou\u0161et si, jak\u00e9 to je, m\u00edt sv\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed a d\u011blat v\u0161echno proto, aby se to \u201eneprovalilo\u201c. Dal\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st to d\u011blala opakovan\u011b a najdeme i ty, kte\u0159\u00ed d\u00edky tomu \u0161kolu nedokon\u010dili. Kdy jde o ne\u0161kodn\u00e9 poru\u0161en\u00ed pravidel a kdy se z tohoto mal\u00e9ho dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed st\u00e1v\u00e1 probl\u00e9m? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4576,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4575","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychologie-motivace"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4575","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4575"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4575\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4579,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4575\/revisions\/4579"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4576"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4575"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4575"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4575"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}