{"id":4556,"date":"2020-10-19T13:38:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:38:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=4556"},"modified":"2020-10-20T15:10:41","modified_gmt":"2020-10-20T13:10:41","slug":"jak-vyzrat-na-negativisticke-dite-ve-skole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/2020\/10\/19\/jak-vyzrat-na-negativisticke-dite-ve-skole\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak vyzr\u00e1t na negativistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-ym0ws-2ec609ff32cdc7e7c12c4db0101a6916\">\n.flex_column.av-ym0ws-2ec609ff32cdc7e7c12c4db0101a6916{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-ym0ws-2ec609ff32cdc7e7c12c4db0101a6916 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kghwb11s-9d3dc7900ec9ea865ba653c8d6c7ba1b '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1><strong>Jak vyzr\u00e1t na negativistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>P\u0159i rozhovorech s\u00a0u\u010diteli jsem se opakovan\u011b setkala s\u00a0ot\u00e1zkou t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se negativismu u d\u011bt\u00ed a dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edch a toho, jak na n\u011bj reagovat. U\u010ditel\u00e9 se ve sv\u00e9 praxi tu a tam setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed s\u00a0\u017e\u00e1ky \u010di studenty, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 permanentn\u011b v\u00a0opozici, odm\u00edtaj\u00ed spolupracovat, vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed opakovan\u011b diskuze o smysluplnosti toho, co chce u\u010ditel se t\u0159\u00eddou d\u011blat, nez\u0159\u00eddka r\u016fzn\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby zpochyb\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1zory \u010di metody u\u010ditele, pop\u0159. jsou ti\u0161\u00ed, ale nespolupracuj\u00ed a je obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 je zaujmout a p\u0159im\u011bt k\u00a0\u010dinnosti. Toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt celou \u0159adu p\u0159\u00ed\u010din.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-77k8ek-045b49d89acd83d1b02dc15c943c27d7\">\n.flex_column.av-77k8ek-045b49d89acd83d1b02dc15c943c27d7{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-77k8ek-045b49d89acd83d1b02dc15c943c27d7 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-kghwokaj-a79c67be772283467c2e24c8570bc294\">\n.avia-image-container.av-kghwokaj-a79c67be772283467c2e24c8570bc294 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-kghwokaj-a79c67be772283467c2e24c8570bc294 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-kghwokaj-a79c67be772283467c2e24c8570bc294 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-4557 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-4557 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53.png\" alt='' title='53'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53-705x484.png 705w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/53-450x309.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-5j7qj0-3798356324c2a4ab9612c6fd6181e8a8\">\n.flex_column.av-5j7qj0-3798356324c2a4ab9612c6fd6181e8a8{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-5j7qj0-3798356324c2a4ab9612c6fd6181e8a8 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kghwcmun-9dfb91290bc5f4b4cd25cbfc9e876c85 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>M\u016f\u017ee vych\u00e1zet z\u00a0osobnosti d\u00edt\u011bte, z jeho nad\u00e1n\u00ed a pot\u0159eby hledat si vlastn\u00ed postupy a zp\u016fsoby, z\u00a0jeho aktu\u00e1ln\u00edho psychick\u00e9ho stavu \u010di dlouhodob\u00e9 poruchy, z jeho z\u00e1jm\u016f a pot\u0159eb, z\u00a0toho, jak \u0161kolu \u010di konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho u\u010ditele vn\u00edmaj\u00ed rodi\u010de \u010di spolu\u017e\u00e1ci, z\u00a0osobnosti a zp\u016fsobu pr\u00e1ce samotn\u00e9ho u\u010ditele, z\u00a0faktu, \u017ee u\u010ditel sv\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edstupem d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 jinou autoritu (nap\u0159. rodi\u010de), v\u016f\u010di kter\u00e9 je v\u00a0opozici, a ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f jde klasicky o kombinaci v\u00edce faktor\u016f. Odpov\u011bd\u011bt na ot\u00e1zku, co vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 a udr\u017euje negativn\u00ed postoje a reakce u konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte a jak oboj\u00ed co nejl\u00e9pe ovlivnit, je proto obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, a to obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b v\u00a0kr\u00e1tk\u00e9m \u010dl\u00e1nku a bez konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho p\u0159\u00edpadu, kter\u00fd by bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 rozebrat a popsat. P\u0159esto pro v\u00e1s m\u00e1m alespo\u0148 p\u00e1r tip\u016f, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m mohou pomoci, pokud naraz\u00edte u d\u00edt\u011bte na odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed a vzdor.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b se zamyslete nad t\u00edm, v\u00a0jak\u00e9m v\u00fdvojov\u00e9m obdob\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 \u017e\u00e1k je<\/strong>. Pro obdob\u00ed puberty je obdobn\u011b jako pro batolec\u00ed obdob\u00ed vzdor, negativismus a odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed autorit p\u0159irozen\u00fd. Souvis\u00ed s\u00a0osamostat\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm d\u00edt\u011bte a s\u00a0jeho posunem na vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdvojovou \u00farove\u0148. S\u00a0prosazov\u00e1n\u00edm autority \u201esilou\u201c tady neobstoj\u00edme a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00fd negativismus jen zhor\u0161\u00edme. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je nastaven\u00ed ur\u010dit\u00fdch zd\u016fvodn\u011bn\u00fdch hranic a pravidel, a to ide\u00e1ln\u011b spole\u010dn\u011b s\u00a0\u017e\u00e1ky, ale vedle toho i respektov\u00e1n\u00ed touhy d\u00edt\u011bte, d\u011blat si v\u011bci po sv\u00e9m, kl\u00e1st i provokativn\u00ed ot\u00e1zky a moci spolurozhodovat o tom, co se bude d\u011blat a jak. Puber\u0165\u00e1k zkou\u0161\u00ed, jestli v\u00edme, co a pro\u010d d\u011bl\u00e1me, jestli jej bereme v\u00e1\u017en\u011b a citliv\u011b zareagujeme i na jeho p\u0159\u00edpadnou pot\u0159ebu p\u0159edv\u00e1d\u011bt se.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Dobr\u00e9 b\u00fdv\u00e1 zjistit, jestli se \u017e\u00e1k projevuje negativisticky pouze v\u016f\u010di v\u00e1m, nebo maj\u00ed podobnou zku\u0161enost i dal\u0161\u00ed va\u0161i kolegov\u00e9<\/strong>. Pokud jde o jak\u00fdsi typick\u00fd vzorec chov\u00e1n\u00ed dan\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka u r\u016fzn\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f, sv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed to sp\u00ed\u0161e o jeho osobnostn\u00edm nastaven\u00ed, vlivu v\u00fdchovy, nebo tak\u00e9 o jeho postoji v\u016f\u010di \u0161kole a autorit\u00e1m \u010di p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b tak\u00e9 o psychick\u00e9 poru\u0161e. Chov\u00e1-li se odm\u00edtav\u011b pouze v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u011b u jednotliv\u00fdch u\u010ditel\u016f, je na m\u00edst\u011b se zamyslet nad t\u00edm, jak\u00fd postoj m\u00e1te k\u00a0dan\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku, t\u0159\u00edd\u011b, i obecn\u011b k\u00a0v\u011bkov\u00e9 skupin\u011b, s\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e pracujete a polo\u017eit si i nep\u0159\u00edjemnou ot\u00e1zku, zda mohou b\u00fdt negativistick\u00e9 projevy dan\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b zhor\u0161ov\u00e1ny va\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edstupem k\u00a0n\u011bmu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Setk\u00e1v\u00e1te se s\u00a0negativismem ojedin\u011ble, nebo c\u00edt\u00edte odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed cel\u00e9 skupiny, t\u0159\u00eddy \u010di v\u00edce t\u0159\u00edd?<\/strong> Pokud ojedin\u011ble, jde o p\u0159irozen\u00fd jev, ale i tady je dobr\u00e9 se zamyslet nad t\u00edm, \u010d\u00edm to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zp\u016fsobeno a zkusit to zm\u011bnit. Pokud \u010dasto, stoj\u00ed za to si polo\u017eit p\u00e1r ot\u00e1zek a poctiv\u011b si na n\u011b odpov\u011bd\u011bt. P\u016fsob\u00edte autoritativn\u011b a zakl\u00e1d\u00e1te si na tom? Jste p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 benevolentn\u00ed, tak\u017ee v\u016f\u010di v\u00e1m \u017e\u00e1ci nec\u00edt\u00ed respekt? Sna\u017e\u00edte se diskuzi a nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky potla\u010dit \u010di odm\u00edtnout, nebo na n\u011b reagujete vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b? Zast\u00e1v\u00e1te n\u00e1zor, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1ci maj\u00ed poslouchat, nebo n\u00e1zor, \u017ee je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby si naslouchaly ob\u011b strany, tedy u\u010ditel\u00e9 i \u017e\u00e1ci? Bojujete s\u00a0\u017e\u00e1ky neust\u00e1le o \u201emoc\u201c, nebo respektujete jejich n\u00e1zory a pot\u0159eby a oni zase pravidla a hranice, kter\u00e9 jsou nastaveny?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Jak\u00e9 pocity ve v\u00e1s negativistick\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1?<\/strong> C\u00edt\u00edte se nejist\u011b a pochybujete o sob\u011b? C\u00edt\u00edte vztek \u010di nen\u00e1vist? Nebo vn\u00edm\u00e1te, \u017ee se \u017e\u00e1k sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem tr\u00e1p\u00ed a r\u00e1di byste mu pomohli? \u010c\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1te negativismus jako \u00fatok na vlastn\u00ed osobu a \u010d\u00edm v\u00edce se sna\u017e\u00edte p\u0159ij\u00edt na to, co k\u00a0odm\u00edtav\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho jedince vede, bez toho, \u017ee byste jej hned ozna\u010dili za \u201eignoranta\u201c, t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed je va\u0161e \u0161ance toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed pozitivn\u011b ovlivnit.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-4esejw-b23b9249584d63ec7686af8b9622ce24\">\n.flex_column.av-4esejw-b23b9249584d63ec7686af8b9622ce24{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-4esejw-b23b9249584d63ec7686af8b9622ce24 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-kghwphu6-e32c76eeb76de6c1d87fbac1b91cf8d8\">\n.avia-image-container.av-kghwphu6-e32c76eeb76de6c1d87fbac1b91cf8d8 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-kghwphu6-e32c76eeb76de6c1d87fbac1b91cf8d8 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-kghwphu6-e32c76eeb76de6c1d87fbac1b91cf8d8 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-7  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-4558 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-4558 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54.png\" alt='' title='54'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54.png 1000w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54-768x527.png 768w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54-705x484.png 705w, https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-content\/uploads\/54-450x309.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-8svu4-8f45f1ef82b2d66048fda25b9c6e7dc2\">\n.flex_column.av-8svu4-8f45f1ef82b2d66048fda25b9c6e7dc2{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-8svu4-8f45f1ef82b2d66048fda25b9c6e7dc2 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-kghwdq53-733fdd620fd22490e4cc03bf62fae9be '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Existuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpady, kdy je zvl\u00e1dnut\u00ed negativismu obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9. B\u00fdv\u00e1 to tehdy, pokud je u\u010ditel nejist\u00fd, p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 autoritativn\u00ed nebo naopak extr\u00e9mn\u011b benevolentn\u00ed, pokud je u \u017e\u00e1ka p\u0159\u00edtomna porucha chov\u00e1n\u00ed, zauj\u00edm\u00e1 odm\u00edtav\u00e9 postoje ke \u0161kole \u010di vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a je v\u00a0tom podporov\u00e1n sv\u00fdmi bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi, \u010di pokud ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b a \u0161kole panuj\u00ed negativn\u00ed vztahy. Obecn\u011b lze \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee a\u010dkoliv je trest metodou, kterou se u\u010ditel m\u016f\u017ee sna\u017eit prosadit dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed pravidel, je tak\u00e9 metodou, kter\u00e1 nep\u0159isp\u00edv\u00e1 ke zlep\u0161en\u00ed vztah\u016f a sbl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed, n\u00fdbr\u017e vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 negativn\u00ed emoce a obrany a u \u017e\u00e1ka, kter\u00e9mu slou\u017e\u00ed odm\u00edtav\u00e9 reakce k\u00a0upout\u00e1n\u00ed pozornosti spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f \u010di ke zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00edho statusu ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b a m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st ke zhor\u0161en\u00ed projev\u016f. V\u00a0praxi se mi v\u00a0drtiv\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f osv\u011bd\u010dil postup, kdy se u\u010ditel zamysl\u00ed nad t\u00edm, co d\u00edt\u011b k\u00a0negativistick\u00fdm projev\u016fm m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st, nad t\u00edm, jak\u00e9 emoce v\u00a0n\u011bm samotn\u00e9m tyto projevy vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed a nad v\u00fd\u0161e popsan\u00fdmi body. Osv\u011bd\u010dilo se mi nebrat si odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed osobn\u011b, neur\u00e1\u017eet se, vyhnout se sebeponi\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed i poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, pt\u00e1t se d\u00edt\u011bte, co mu vad\u00ed, pro\u010d n\u011bco nechce d\u011blat, naslouchat mu, reagovat vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b, citliv\u011b a se z\u00e1jmem, pokud je to mo\u017en\u00e9 respektovat jeho rozhodnut\u00ed a zam\u011b\u0159it na n\u011bj svou pozornost hlavn\u011b ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy se chov\u00e1 pozitivn\u011b. U v\u011bt\u0161iny \u017e\u00e1k\u016f zafunguje sp\u00ed\u0161e neautoritativn\u00ed, lidsk\u00fd a ch\u00e1pav\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup, projeven\u00ed z\u00e1jmu, snaha mluvit s\u00a0nimi mezi \u010dty\u0159ma o\u010dima, pochvala, \u00fasm\u011bv, ocen\u011bn\u00ed toho, \u017ee p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed, dotaz na to, co a jak by cht\u011bli. Pokud n\u00e1m \u017e\u00e1k sd\u011bl\u00ed, co mu vad\u00ed a co by cht\u011bl, m\u00e1me u\u017e z\u00e1klad pro dal\u0161\u00ed posun. M\u016f\u017eeme ocenit v\u0161echny pozitivn\u00ed p\u0159ipom\u00ednky, zamyslet se nad nimi, vyu\u017e\u00edt je a m\u016f\u017eeme bez kritiky rozvinout i ty negativn\u00ed n\u00e1vrhy, nap\u0159. \u201eneu\u010dme se, nepi\u0161me p\u00edsemky\u201c t\u00edm, \u017ee se zept\u00e1me, jak\u00e9 by to bylo, kdybychom se jimi \u0159\u00eddili. \u017d\u00e1ci \u010dasto sami uznaj\u00ed, \u017ee to, co navrhuj\u00ed, ve skute\u010dnosti ani necht\u011bj\u00ed. Smyslupln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e \u017e\u00e1ky uml\u010det, \u201esrovnat\u201c a donutit k\u00a0\u010dinnosti je to, kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed je z\u00edskat, zaujmout, motivovat, pochv\u00e1lit a z\u00a0oponenta si ud\u011blat spojence.<\/p>\n<p>Dovolte mi mal\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad na z\u00e1v\u011br. Jste-li poprv\u00e9 ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b a budete tam m\u00edt n\u011bkoho, kdo neust\u00e1le vyk\u0159ikuje, oponuje a klade v\u00e1m nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, m\u016f\u017eete jej uml\u010det, \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee u v\u00e1s se vyk\u0159ikovat nebude, m\u016f\u017eete pohrozit trestem nebo pron\u00e9st n\u011bco o nevychovanosti a tv\u00e1\u0159it se na\u0161tvan\u011b. To jsou v\u00fdborn\u00e9 podm\u00ednky pro vytvo\u0159en\u00ed hezk\u00e9ho vztahu a doc\u00edlen\u00ed klidn\u00e9 spolupr\u00e1ce v budoucnosti, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te? Nebo m\u016f\u017eete poprosit danou osobu, a\u0165 se hl\u00e1s\u00ed, a\u0165 po\u010dk\u00e1, a\u017e domluv\u00edte, pak ji vyslechnout, usm\u00e1t se a vl\u00eddn\u011b reagovat. V\u00a0z\u00e1v\u011bru hodiny m\u016f\u017eete dan\u00e9 osob\u011b mezi \u010dty\u0159ma o\u010dima laskav\u011b \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee m\u00e1 zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 post\u0159ehy a l\u00edb\u00ed se v\u00e1m, jak p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed, jen bude fajn, kdy\u017e se bude hl\u00e1sit, nebo p\u0159ijde osobn\u011b, \u017ee si r\u00e1di ty n\u00e1zory poslechnete. V\u00a0jednom p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b si z\u0159ejm\u011b vyrob\u00edte bu\u010f otev\u0159en\u00e9ho nebo skryt\u00e9ho \u201ebojovn\u00edka a nep\u0159\u00edtele\u201c, ke kter\u00e9mu se pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b p\u0159idaj\u00ed v\u0161ichni, kte\u0159\u00ed jej uzn\u00e1vaj\u00ed a maj\u00ed r\u00e1di, v\u00a0tom druh\u00e9m velmi pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b z\u00edsk\u00e1te spojence, proto\u017ee v\u00a0n\u011bm vyvol\u00e1te sv\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem a vst\u0159\u00edcnost\u00ed pozitivn\u00ed emoce a nebude cht\u00edt to va\u0161e \u201epozitivn\u00ed vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed jeho osoby\u201c naru\u0161it. Neplat\u00ed to stoprocentn\u011b, uzn\u00e1v\u00e1m, \u0161a\u0161kov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed spolu\u017e\u00e1ky je v\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00fdch etap\u00e1ch \u017eivota l\u00e1kav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edzn\u011b u\u010ditele, ale \u0161ance na \u00fasp\u011bch je v\u00fdrazn\u011b lep\u0161\u00ed u vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00fdch, naslouchaj\u00edc\u00edch a oce\u0148uj\u00edc\u00edch u\u010ditel\u016f ne\u017e u t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed si autoritu buduj\u00ed rad\u011bji uml\u010dov\u00e1n\u00edm a poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm. Mimochodem, p\u0159edstavte si p\u0159\u00edstup sv\u00fdch \u0161\u00e9f\u016f k v\u00e1m a sami si jasn\u011b uv\u011bdom\u00edte, za k\u00fdm r\u00e1di p\u016fjdete a s\u00a0k\u00fdm budete bojovat. D\u011bti a studenti to maj\u00ed podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159eji v\u00e1m, a\u0165 se v\u00e1m negativismus neda\u0159\u00ed l\u00e1mat \u010di stup\u0148ovat, ale rozpou\u0161t\u011bt z\u00e1jmem a vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm pozitivn\u00edch emoc\u00ed a a\u0165 se vl\u00eddn\u00e9ho zach\u00e1zen\u00ed, naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed a ocen\u011bn\u00ed dost\u00e1v\u00e1 i v\u00e1m samotn\u00fdm.<\/p>\n<h4>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h4>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>U\u010ditel\u00e9 se ve sv\u00e9 praxi tu a tam setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed s\u00a0\u017e\u00e1ky \u010di studenty, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 permanentn\u011b v\u00a0opozici, odm\u00edtaj\u00ed spolupracovat, vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed opakovan\u011b diskuze a nez\u0159\u00eddka r\u016fzn\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby zpochyb\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1zory \u010di metody u\u010ditele. Jak na takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed vyzr\u00e1t? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4557,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychologie-motivace"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4556"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4556\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4560,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4556\/revisions\/4560"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4557"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/konference\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}