{"id":3751,"date":"2020-03-16T18:26:04","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T17:26:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=3751"},"modified":"2020-03-16T18:28:50","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T17:28:50","slug":"soucasna-doba-si-zada-lidskost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/2020\/03\/16\/soucasna-doba-si-zada-lidskost\/","title":{"rendered":"Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 doba si \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 lidskost"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-658raf-67465efec339788882604999aba720d9\">\n.flex_column.av-658raf-67465efec339788882604999aba720d9{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-658raf-67465efec339788882604999aba720d9 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k7uqih2c-7c4841e587b35b33de8e0b88c102ad96'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1>Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 doba si \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 lidskost<\/h1>\n<p><strong>V\u00e1\u017een\u00ed a mil\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 v\u00a0dob\u011b \u201ekoronavirov\u00e9\u201c,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>existuje velk\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed teori\u00ed o tom, jak\u00e9 role by m\u011bl zast\u00e1vat u\u010ditel a tak\u00e9 \u0159ada opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00fdch argumentac\u00ed, \u017ee by u\u010ditel nem\u011bl \u201esuplovat\u201c role, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161\u00ed rodin\u011b a rodi\u010d\u016fm. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b situace posledn\u00edch dn\u016f je opravdu mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e1 a specifick\u00e1 a jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1 o tom, \u017ee u\u010ditel\u00e9 mohou b\u00fdt t\u011bm \u201esv\u00fdm d\u011btem\u201c, kter\u00e9 u\u010d\u00ed, prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00ed i v\u00a0n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m, ne\u017e je zad\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fakol\u016f nebo procvi\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed na d\u00e1lku. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mnoho d\u011bt\u00ed m\u00e1 miluj\u00edc\u00ed, rozumn\u00e9 a citliv\u00e9 rodi\u010de. To je pravda. Tito rodi\u010de jsou schopni d\u011btem poskytnout pot\u0159ebnou podporu a p\u00e9\u010di, a to i v\u00a0t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch dob\u00e1ch, nebo pr\u00e1v\u011b v\u00a0t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch dob\u00e1ch. Zcela otev\u0159en\u011b chci ale dnes napsat (bez toho, \u017ee bych se cht\u011bla kohokoliv dotknout), \u017ee \u0159ada d\u011bt\u00ed m\u00e1 rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed je nepodr\u017e\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou sami \u00fazkostn\u00ed, p\u0159et\u00ed\u017een\u00ed, vystresovan\u00ed, necitliv\u00ed, nebo neznal\u00ed pot\u0159eb d\u011btsk\u00e9 du\u0161e. Realita je takov\u00e1, \u017ee \u0159ada rodi\u010d\u016f moc nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad t\u00edm, co p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed nebo co d\u011bti sly\u0161\u00ed z\u00a0m\u00e9di\u00ed a existuj\u00ed nepochybn\u011b i rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed se moc neorientuj\u00ed v\u00a0tom, co se vlastn\u011b d\u011bje a na co je pot\u0159eba myslet.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-4ds5x3-83cdf8c89d378601f5106c2448d6d0bc\">\n.flex_column.av-4ds5x3-83cdf8c89d378601f5106c2448d6d0bc{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-4ds5x3-83cdf8c89d378601f5106c2448d6d0bc av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k7uqlqa4-2dd4a612dccd0662c031e01719b4b389\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k7uqlqa4-2dd4a612dccd0662c031e01719b4b389 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k7uqlqa4-2dd4a612dccd0662c031e01719b4b389 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k7uqlqa4-2dd4a612dccd0662c031e01719b4b389 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3752 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3752 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Na\u0301vrh-bez-na\u0301zvu-25.png' alt='' title='Na\u0301vrh bez na\u0301zvu (25)'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-32pmtz-f7c54ca5b561d301dec0b81b7e7b8156\">\n.flex_column.av-32pmtz-f7c54ca5b561d301dec0b81b7e7b8156{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-32pmtz-f7c54ca5b561d301dec0b81b7e7b8156 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k7uqk6qp-445424078bcfd3c075a7a3643f45c23f'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Tak\u017ee dnes se na v\u00e1s obrac\u00edm s\u00a0povzbuzen\u00ed, abyste se neb\u00e1li pos\u00edlat t\u011bm \u201esv\u00fdm d\u011btem\u201c krom\u011b pr\u00e1ce taky kus oby\u010dejn\u00e9ho lidsk\u00e9ho z\u00e1jmu, abyste se mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b neost\u00fdchali poskytovat jim i \u201emaminkovskou \u010di tat\u00ednkovskou\u201c podporu dosp\u011bl\u00fdch, rozumn\u00fdch a klidn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Abyste na chv\u00edli byli ochotni p\u0159ijmout fakt, \u017ee jsou situace, kdy u\u010ditel m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt pro konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b v\u00fdznamn\u00fdm a bl\u00edzk\u00fdm dosp\u011bl\u00fdm. A a\u010d se tomu v\u00a0b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u011b br\u00e1n\u00edme, te\u010f m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt va\u0161e ch\u00e1pav\u00e1 a vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e1 \u201evirtu\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1ru\u010d\u201c pro d\u00edt\u011b doslova p\u0159\u00edstavem bezpe\u010d\u00ed a n\u011bkdy i jedin\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edstavem bezpe\u010d\u00ed. D\u011bti, kter\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed doma ve \u0161patn\u00fdch podm\u00ednk\u00e1ch, z\u00a0nich najednou nemaj\u00ed kam uniknout\u2026<\/p>\n<p>D\u011bti jsou citliv\u00e9 a jako psycholo\u017eka se a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto setk\u00e1v\u00e1m s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee \u0159e\u0161\u00ed n\u011bjakou svou \u00fazkost, \u0161ikanu, probl\u00e9m \u010di strach a rodi\u010de o tom nev\u00ed. A \u010dasto p\u0159itom v\u016fbec nejde o rodi\u010de bez z\u00e1jmu, ale o rodi\u010de, kter\u00fd sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b miluje a k\u00a0n\u011bmu\u017e m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b dobr\u00fd a bl\u00edzk\u00fd vztah. O tom, co jej tr\u00e1p\u00ed, rodi\u010d\u016fm ne\u0159ekne z\u00a0obavy, aby jim nep\u0159id\u011bl\u00e1val starosti, aby maminka nebyla je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc smutn\u00e1, aby vid\u011bla, \u017ee je syn \u010di dcera siln\u00e1\u2026 Ano, d\u011bti se n\u00e1s, dosp\u011bl\u00e9, n\u011bkdy v\u011bdom\u011b a n\u011bkdy nev\u011bdom\u011b sna\u017e\u00ed chr\u00e1nit. Je to hezk\u00e9, ale ob\u010das je to b\u0159emeno, kter\u00e9 si na sebe nalo\u017e\u00ed, na jejich k\u0159ehk\u00e9 du\u0161i\u010dky a drobn\u00e1 t\u011bl\u00ed\u010dka p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Pros\u00edm, zkuste v\u00a0t\u011bchto dnech myslet na to, \u017ee v\u00a0\u0159ad\u011b rodin i ve spole\u010dnosti celkov\u011b panuje nervozita, \u017ee se \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed obavy, na to, \u017ee budou d\u011bti nemocn\u00e9 \u010di v\u00a0karant\u00e9n\u011b nebo \u017ee jim onemocn\u00ed n\u011bkdo bl\u00edzk\u00fd. Pokud to nechcete d\u011blat plo\u0161n\u011b, zamyslete se nad t\u00edm, jestli nem\u00e1te mezi sv\u00fdmi \u017e\u00e1\u010dky \u010di studenty jednoho, \u010di p\u00e1r \u201ekousk\u016f\u201c, kter\u00fdm byste mohli d\u00e1t najevo sv\u016fj lidsk\u00fd z\u00e1jem a ochotu sd\u00edlet s\u00a0nimi jejich obavy a strach. Nejen v\u00a0t\u011bchto dnech, ale obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v\u00a0t\u011bchto dnech nab\u00fdv\u00e1 na v\u00fdznamu role u\u010ditele, kterou bych nazvala \u201eLIDSKOST\u201c. Jde o poskytnut\u00ed bezpe\u010d\u00ed, z\u00e1jmu a uklidn\u011bn\u00ed t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou zraniteln\u00ed. D\u011bti se t\u00edm u\u010d\u00ed to nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u017de na sv\u011bt\u011b nejsou samy, a \u017ee kdy\u017e se n\u011bco d\u011bje, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 st\u00e1t p\u0159i sob\u011b a pom\u00e1hat si.<\/p>\n<p>D\u011bkuji v\u00e1m za to. Srde\u010dn\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nejen v\u00a0t\u011bchto dnech, ale obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 v\u00a0t\u011bchto dnech nab\u00fdv\u00e1 na v\u00fdznamu role u\u010ditele, kterou bych nazvala \u201eLIDSKOST\u201c. Jde o poskytnut\u00ed bezpe\u010d\u00ed, z\u00e1jmu a uklidn\u011bn\u00ed t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou zraniteln\u00ed. D\u011bti se t\u00edm u\u010d\u00ed to nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u017de na sv\u011bt\u011b nejsou samy, a \u017ee kdy\u017e se n\u011bco d\u011bje, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 st\u00e1t p\u0159i sob\u011b a pom\u00e1hat si.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":3752,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3751"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3751"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3751\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3755,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3751\/revisions\/3755"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3751"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3751"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3751"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}