{"id":3702,"date":"2020-01-12T11:36:04","date_gmt":"2020-01-12T10:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=3702"},"modified":"2020-01-03T11:48:42","modified_gmt":"2020-01-03T10:48:42","slug":"jak-poznat-a-ovlivnit-vztahy-ve-tride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/2020\/01\/12\/jak-poznat-a-ovlivnit-vztahy-ve-tride\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak poznat a ovlivnit vztahy ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k4y0z6j3-db14661bfd668f1e7b0abfe9a0d9bd57'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1><strong>Jak poznat a ovlivnit vztahy ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><strong>U\u010dila jsem v\u00a0jedn\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edd\u011b v\u00edce ne\u017e rok. Dvakr\u00e1t t\u00fddn\u011b jsem potk\u00e1vala t\u0159icet mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed a po roce jsem nabyla dojmu, \u017ee v\u00edm, na koho t\u0159\u00edda d\u00e1, koho maj\u00ed spolu\u017e\u00e1ci r\u00e1di, kdo stoj\u00ed tak trochu bokem a koho vys\u00edlaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e cht\u011bj\u00ed vyjednat n\u011bjakou \u00falevu u u\u010ditele. V\u00a0tomto pocitu m\u011b utvrzovalo mimo jin\u00e9 m\u00e9 psychologick\u00e9 vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, roky zku\u0161enost\u00ed z\u00a0u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 praxe i osobn\u00ed rozhovory se studenty dan\u00e9 t\u0159\u00eddy. Dnes u\u017e v\u00edm, \u017ee ani na jedno z\u00a0toho nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 se spolehnout.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k4y17qia-a389e681b636f365b7440b85c887c5ac\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k4y17qia-a389e681b636f365b7440b85c887c5ac img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k4y17qia-a389e681b636f365b7440b85c887c5ac .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k4y17qia-a389e681b636f365b7440b85c887c5ac av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3704 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3704 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_176825417_blog.png' alt='' title='shutterstock_176825417_blog'  height=\"686\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k4y15x7l-a6df3407f050246044f31bbb4433e87e'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Za\u010dalo se ukazovat, \u017ee vztahy v dan\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edd\u011b se zhor\u0161uj\u00ed a spolu s\u00a0t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edm jsme usoudili, \u017ee by mohl b\u00fdt prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd jak\u00fdsi \u201ez\u00e1sah zven\u010d\u00ed\u201c, proto\u017ee za\u010dalo b\u00fdt z\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee pouh\u00e9 obecn\u00e9 domlouv\u00e1n\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edho, ani s\u00edly samotn\u00fdch student\u016f na zlep\u0161en\u00ed nesta\u010d\u00ed. Dohodli jsme se na tom, \u017ee se t\u0159\u00eddou ud\u011bl\u00e1m sociometrick\u00fd test.<\/p>\n<p>Pot\u00e9, co jsem student\u016fm vysv\u011btlila, k\u00a0\u010demu by to pro jejich t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edho i pro n\u011b samotn\u00e9 mohlo b\u00fdt dobr\u00e9 a ubezpe\u010dila je, \u017ee nikdo jin\u00fd krom\u011b m\u011b a jej se k\u00a0v\u00fdsledk\u016fm testu nedostane, ochotn\u011b spolupracovali. Jak u\u017e mo\u017en\u00e1 tu\u0161\u00edte, v\u00fdsledky byly p\u0159ekvapiv\u00e9. \u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd s\u00a0u\u010diteli nejv\u00edce za t\u0159\u00eddu komunikoval, byl ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b nejm\u00e9n\u011b obl\u00edben\u00fd. D\u00e1 se \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee dlouhodob\u011b prosazoval n\u011bco, s\u00a0\u010d\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161ina nesouhlasila, ale nikdo se neozval, nebo tomu nedok\u00e1zal zabr\u00e1nit. Zcela na opa\u010dn\u00e9m p\u00f3lu byl student, kter\u00fd se u\u010ditel\u016fm jevil jako tich\u00fd a nev\u00fdrazn\u00fd. Zjistilo se, \u017ee je velmi obl\u00edben\u00fd a jeho m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed m\u00e1 ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b velkou v\u00e1hu. Ten, kdo nejv\u00edc hlasit\u011b kritizoval, byl zkritizov\u00e1n a skupinka, kter\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1st t\u0159\u00eddy p\u0159ipisovala vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed konflikt\u016f, byla v\u00a0testu v\u011bt\u0161inou ozna\u010dena za vst\u0159\u00edcnou. Byla to vzorov\u00e1 uk\u00e1zka toho, jak matouc\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dojem, kter\u00fd si ze t\u0159\u00eddy odn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed t\u0159eba i zku\u0161en\u00fd u\u010ditel a tak\u00e9 toho, jak slo\u017eit\u00e9 b\u00fdvaj\u00ed vztahy v\u00a0tak velk\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>Nep\u00ed\u0161u o tom z\u00a0d\u016fvodu, abyste vid\u011bli, jakou jsem dostala profesn\u00ed \u201e\u0165afku\u201c (i kdy\u017e i to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt nepochybn\u011b pou\u010dn\u00e9), n\u00fdbr\u017e abych v\u00e1m p\u0159edala inspiraci. Pokud pracujete s\u00a0t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edm kolektivem (hlavn\u011b v\u00a0pozici t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edch u\u010ditel\u016f), vyu\u017eijte mo\u017enosti rozkr\u00fdt rozlo\u017een\u00ed sil a vztah\u016f v\u00a0kolektivu. Nechte si samotn\u00fdmi d\u011btmi \u010di studenty uk\u00e1zat, na koho nejv\u00edce daj\u00ed, kdo je m\u016f\u017ee nejv\u00edce ovlivnit (a v\u00e1m nejv\u00edce pomoci, pokud jej z\u00edsk\u00e1te na svou stranu). Pod\u00edvejte se, komu t\u0159\u00edda v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, koho vn\u00edm\u00e1 jako spolehliv\u00e9ho, koho jako nevd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9ho, kdo se v\u0161emi dob\u0159e vych\u00e1z\u00ed a kdo se c\u00edt\u00ed osam\u011ble. Nahl\u00e9dn\u011bte do toho, jak vn\u00edmaj\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ru ve sv\u00e9m kolektivu d\u011bti samotn\u00e9, nakolik si d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed, nakolik si navz\u00e1jem pom\u00e1haj\u00ed a jak se tam c\u00edt\u00ed.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k4y138x2-918db58b9b6f7d344cfad3544e58405d\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k4y138x2-918db58b9b6f7d344cfad3544e58405d img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k4y138x2-918db58b9b6f7d344cfad3544e58405d .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k4y138x2-918db58b9b6f7d344cfad3544e58405d av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-7  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3703 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3703 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_247372474_blog.png' alt='' title='shutterstock_247372474_blog'  height=\"667\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k4y10t08-2e2cba2b46f6126f3297aa03abb6e467'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee si potvrd\u00edte to, co jste tu\u0161ili, ale dle m\u00fdch zku\u0161enost\u00ed je velmi pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee se p\u0159ed v\u00e1mi objev\u00ed n\u011bco, co v\u00e1s p\u0159ekvap\u00ed. M\u00e1 zku\u0161enost z\u00a0pozice psychologa je takov\u00e1, \u017ee skoro v\u017edycky vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed \u00fadiv nad n\u011b\u010d\u00edm, co n\u00e1m sociometrick\u00fd dotazn\u00edk uk\u00e1\u017ee. Krom\u011b rozkryt\u00ed toho, jak to ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b aktu\u00e1ln\u011b vypad\u00e1, m\u00e1te nav\u00edc v\u00a0ruce jakousi \u201epom\u016fcku\u201c, d\u00edky n\u00ed\u017e m\u016f\u017eete leccos v\u00a0t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edm d\u011bn\u00ed aktivn\u011b a pozitivn\u011b ovliv\u0148ovat \u2013 a to je z\u00a0m\u00e9ho pohledu pr\u00e1v\u011b to nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. D\u00edky tomu, \u017ee budete v\u011bd\u011bt, kdo koho m\u00e1 a nem\u00e1 r\u00e1d, m\u016f\u017eete citliv\u011b volit d\u011blen\u00ed do skupin p\u0159i r\u016fzn\u00fdch aktivit\u00e1ch. Je-li t\u0159eba prosadit nepopul\u00e1rn\u00ed opat\u0159en\u00ed ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b, pom\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m, kdy\u017e o jeho smysluplnosti dok\u00e1\u017eete p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit toho \u010dlov\u011bka (ty lidi) ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b, na jeho\u017e n\u00e1zor ostatn\u00ed nejv\u00edce daj\u00ed. Za p\u0159isp\u011bn\u00ed t\u00e9ho\u017e \u010dlov\u011bka m\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 napomoci zapojen\u00ed do kolektivu t\u011bch jedinc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou na okraji.<\/p>\n<p>Zkuste vyu\u017e\u00edt v\u00fdchovn\u00e9ho poradce \u010di psychologa, kter\u00e9ho ve \u0161kole m\u00e1te a pobavte se s\u00a0n\u00edm o tom. Jist\u011b\u017ee tato sociometrick\u00e1 metoda nen\u00ed samospasiteln\u00e1 a m\u00e1 i sv\u00e1 rizika. Je t\u0159eba vysv\u011btlit d\u011btem \u010di student\u016fm k\u00a0\u010demu slou\u017e\u00ed, jak pro n\u011b m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1, ohl\u00eddat to, aby se jeden druh\u00e9mu ned\u00edvali p\u0159es rameno (ani pokud jsou p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9), povzbudit je k\u00a0pravdivosti a otev\u0159enosti, sl\u00edbit, \u017ee dotazn\u00edky samotn\u00e9 i jejich v\u00fdsledky budou chr\u00e1n\u011bny p\u0159ed zneu\u017eit\u00edm, a hlavn\u011b to dodr\u017eet. Tady vn\u00edm\u00e1m to nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed riziko. Jde o citliv\u00e1 data a je jist\u00e9, \u017ee pokud by se v\u00fdsledky dostaly mezi d\u011bti \u010di studenty, definitivn\u011b t\u00edm \u201erozlo\u017e\u00edte\u201c ka\u017ed\u00fd, i ten sebelep\u0161\u00ed, kolektiv! \u0160ikovn\u00fd t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed z\u00a0dotazn\u00edku ur\u010dit\u011b n\u011bco z\u00edsk\u00e1 a vyu\u017eije, v rukou necitliv\u00e9ho a netaktn\u00edho t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edho mohou b\u00fdt v\u00fdsledky nebezpe\u010dnou zbran\u00ed, kter\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee ubl\u00ed\u017eit. S\u00a0t\u00edmto v\u011bdom\u00edm k\u00a0nim doporu\u010duji p\u0159istupovat. Zkuste to. Maxim\u00e1ln\u011b zjist\u00edte, \u017ee jste v\u0161echno u\u017e v\u011bd\u011bli i bez dotazn\u00edk\u016f.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159eji v\u00e1m moudrost p\u0159i pozn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed i kou\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed va\u0161ich \u201esme\u010dek\u201c.<\/p>\n<h3>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>U\u010dila jsem v\u00a0jedn\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edd\u011b v\u00edce ne\u017e rok. Dvakr\u00e1t t\u00fddn\u011b jsem potk\u00e1vala t\u0159icet mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed a po roce jsem nabyla dojmu, \u017ee v\u00edm, na koho t\u0159\u00edda d\u00e1, koho maj\u00ed spolu\u017e\u00e1ci r\u00e1di, kdo stoj\u00ed tak trochu bokem a koho vys\u00edlaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e cht\u011bj\u00ed vyjednat n\u011bjakou \u00falevu u u\u010ditele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":3704,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3702"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3702"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3702\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3708,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3702\/revisions\/3708"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3704"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}