{"id":3676,"date":"2019-12-04T09:05:49","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T08:05:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=3676"},"modified":"2019-11-29T15:52:41","modified_gmt":"2019-11-29T14:52:41","slug":"o-rodicich-ktere-dite-prilis-chrani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/2019\/12\/04\/o-rodicich-ktere-dite-prilis-chrani\/","title":{"rendered":"O rodi\u010d\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 chr\u00e1n\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k3k916dz-5f2e26dd45f47342477971f0aeccb4c4'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1><strong>O rodi\u010d\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 chr\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee rodi\u010d p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 orientovan\u00fd na sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, je jedn\u00edm z\u00a0probl\u00e9m\u016f doby, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e \u017eijeme. P\u0159\u00ed\u010din, pro\u010d se nadm\u011brn\u00e1 v\u00e1zanost na d\u00edt\u011b vyvine, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt cel\u00e1 \u0159ada. Svou roli zde sehr\u00e1v\u00e1 temperament rodi\u010de, jeho \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, m\u00edra jeho \u00fazkostnosti \u010di z\u00e1vislosti, p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed po\u010det star\u0161\u00edch, rozveden\u00fdch, svobodn\u00fdch \u010di osam\u011ble \u017eij\u00edc\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem i porozvodov\u00e1 st\u0159\u00eddav\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de, kdy m\u00e1 rodi\u010d mo\u017enost b\u00fdt s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem pouze ve vymezen\u00e9m \u010dase. Krom\u011b toho \u017eije v\u00a0sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b \u0159ada rodi\u010d\u016f a d\u011bt\u00ed izolovan\u011b od zbytku rodiny a pracuj\u00edc\u00ed rodi\u010de se mnohdy sna\u017e\u00ed sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti ur\u010ditou formou sv\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de vykompenzovat to, co mu ze sv\u00e9ho pohledu nejsou schopni poskytnout a maj\u00ed tendenci sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti pl\u00e1novat \u010das a ve zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e jej sledovat. Vyb\u00edraj\u00ed mu \u0161kolky, \u0161koly, krou\u017eky, m\u00edsta i lidi, mezi nimi\u017e se pohybuje. Krom\u011b toho p\u0159ib\u00fdv\u00e1 jedin\u00e1\u010dk\u016f, tzv. \u201evymodlen\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed\u201c a d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed od sv\u00fdch sourozenc\u016f velk\u00fd v\u011bkov\u00fd odstup a jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ny velmi podobn\u011b jako jedin\u00e1\u010dci. Svou roli zde sehr\u00e1vaj\u00ed i m\u00e9dia, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b a \u0159ada \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f a laick\u00fdch diskuz\u00ed t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00edch se v\u00fdchovy d\u00edt\u011bte, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e mnoh\u00e9 z nich zdrav\u00e9 a p\u0159irozen\u00e9 v\u00fdchov\u011b \u017eel v\u00fdrazn\u011b odporuj\u00ed. Objevuje se \u0159ada \u201emodern\u00edch\u201c n\u00e1zor\u016f na to, jak k\u00a0d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159istupovat, aby se t\u00edm co nejl\u00e9pe rozv\u00edjela jeho jedine\u010dn\u00e1 osobnost, ale n\u00e1sledky \u010dasto neodpov\u00eddaj\u00ed slibovan\u00e9mu o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k3k9ao8f-9b83b1e083747892798cdd1d18d8040f\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k3k9ao8f-9b83b1e083747892798cdd1d18d8040f img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k3k9ao8f-9b83b1e083747892798cdd1d18d8040f .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k3k9ao8f-9b83b1e083747892798cdd1d18d8040f av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3679 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3679 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_1110009368_blog.png' alt='' title='shutterstock_1110009368_blog'  height=\"667\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k3k96g9j-39fbfc3da6c570cdd689f5ffafc233e1'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>Existuje nepochybn\u011b \u0159ada dal\u0161\u00edch faktor\u016f, je\u017e se mohou pod\u00edlet na tom, \u017ee rodi\u010de v\u011bdom\u011b \u010di nev\u011bdom\u011b br\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u00e9mu zr\u00e1n\u00ed a odpout\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed se vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed a sna\u017e\u00ed se je ochr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed re\u00e1ln\u00fdm \u010di domn\u011bl\u00fdm nebezpe\u010d\u00edm, ale i p\u0159ed ve\u0161ker\u00fdmi t\u011b\u017ekostmi, kter\u00e9 neodmysliteln\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed k\u00a0\u017eivotu. Je smutn\u00e9, \u017ee mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de nejsou schopni \u010di ochotni vid\u011bt d\u016fsledky tohoto sv\u00e9ho nadm\u011brn\u00e9ho \u201eochran\u00e1\u0159stv\u00ed\u201c. Vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed v\u00a0dobr\u00e9 v\u016fli d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 jsou nesamostatn\u00e9, nejist\u00e9 (nebo p\u0159ehnan\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00e9 do t\u00e9 doby, ne\u017e p\u0159ijde prvn\u00ed probl\u00e9m), zam\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 samy na sebe, neschopn\u00e9 prohr\u00e1vat, ustupovat nebo p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b prosazovat vlastn\u00ed n\u00e1zory a po\u017eadavky, ale hlavn\u011b neschopn\u00e9 vyrovnat se s\u00a0posm\u011bchem, nezdarem, kritikou, odm\u00edtnut\u00edm \u010di p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017een\u00edm. Tyto d\u011bti t\u011b\u017ece nesou, kdy\u017e nejsou v\u00a0centru d\u011bn\u00ed, kdy\u017e nejsou prvn\u00ed, kdy\u017e se s\u00a0nimi n\u011bkdo nechce bavit nebo se s\u00a0nimi n\u011bkdo rozejde v\u00a0dob\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Nev\u00ed si rady s\u00a0pocity, kter\u00e9 je p\u0159i t\u011bchto p\u0159irozen\u00fdch \u017eivotn\u00edch situac\u00edch zaplavuj\u00ed, proto\u017ee jim rodi\u010de od d\u011btstv\u00ed p\u0159ed\u00e1vaj\u00ed svou v\u00fdchovou skryt\u00e9 \u201eposelstv\u00ed\u201c o tom, \u017ee jim nikdo nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo ubli\u017eovat a v\u0161ichni jsou povinni se jim p\u0159izp\u016fsobovat.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0d\u016fsledku toho se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me s\u00a0rodi\u010di, kte\u0159\u00ed \u010dasto volaj\u00ed do \u0161koly \u010di chod\u00ed za u\u010diteli, ale neost\u00fdchaj\u00ed se ps\u00e1t \u010di telefonovat i zn\u00e1m\u00fdm sv\u00fdch d\u011bti, aby je pou\u010dili, jak se k\u00a0jejich d\u011btem maj\u00ed chovat. Ve sv\u00e9 praxi se setk\u00e1v\u00e1m s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm nep\u0159ipad\u00e1 divn\u00e9 kontaktovat partnera \u010di partnerku sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, kdy\u017e hroz\u00ed rozchod, nebo kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo jejich d\u00edt\u011b opust\u00ed. Sna\u017e\u00ed se v\u0161echno hl\u00eddat, ovliv\u0148ovat a m\u00edt pod kontrolou. Svou \u00fazkostnost p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed na d\u00edt\u011b spolu s\u00a0p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00edm, \u017ee si jejich d\u00edt\u011b zaslou\u017e\u00ed zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed zach\u00e1zen\u00ed. Jist\u011b, je v\u00a0naprost\u00e9m po\u0159\u00e1dku, kdy\u017e se rodi\u010d zaj\u00edm\u00e1 o sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b a chr\u00e1n\u00ed jej. Jenom i zde plat\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd extr\u00e9m je \u0161kodliv\u00fd. D\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed n\u00e1s samotn\u00fdch, nen\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed rodi\u010de, je samostatnou bytost\u00ed a jako takov\u00e9 se mus\u00ed nau\u010dit postupn\u011b v\u00a0tomto sv\u011bt\u011b fungovat. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 to t\u00edm, \u017ee si \u010dlov\u011bk pro\u017eije a zvl\u00e1dne prohru v\u00a0\u010clov\u011b\u010de nezlob se a pokra\u010duje to ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy si d\u00edt\u011b uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee nen\u00ed dokonal\u00e9 a nebude m\u00edt v\u0161echno, co si p\u0159eje. A to se t\u00fdk\u00e1 v\u011bc\u00ed, pr\u00e1ce, z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f i vztah\u016f. M\u00e1te takov\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole? Nepochybuji o tom. Jak se k\u00a0tomu m\u00e1me jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 postavit?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k3k9cm8f-cd6eb9878e355a0a30c448205fc42ade\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k3k9cm8f-cd6eb9878e355a0a30c448205fc42ade img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k3k9cm8f-cd6eb9878e355a0a30c448205fc42ade .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k3k9cm8f-cd6eb9878e355a0a30c448205fc42ade av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-7  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3681 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3681 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_1176910687_blog.png' alt='' title='shutterstock_1176910687_blog'  height=\"659\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_full  avia-builder-el-last  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding column-top-margin'     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k3k9344z-a691c5bf2f31d51b4b3e1d090a6ae7c0'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p>D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je myslet na to, \u017ee ope\u010dov\u00e1van\u00e9 d\u011bti za to nemohou. Neuv\u011bdomuj\u00ed si to a a\u010d jim to mnohdy m\u016f\u017ee vyhovovat a zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed toho, nastanou chv\u00edle, kdy jim to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9. Rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed se tak chovaj\u00ed, to \u010dasto d\u011blaj\u00ed v\u00a0dobr\u00e9 v\u00ed\u0159e, \u017ee pro sv\u00e9 d\u011bti d\u011blaj\u00ed to nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Mohou se sna\u017eit si v\u00e1s (u\u010ditele) p\u0159edch\u00e1zet, vlichotit se do va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edzn\u011b, uji\u0161\u0165ovat se o tom, \u017ee vn\u00edm\u00e1te jejich d\u00edt\u011b jako mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9 (v jak\u00e9mkoliv ohledu), mohou se sna\u017eit v\u00e1mi manipulovat, radit v\u00e1m, nebo v\u00e1s napom\u00ednat, hl\u00eddat, kontrolovat i ur\u00e1\u017eet. Nez\u0159\u00eddka se rodi\u010d, jemu\u017e se n\u00e1zorov\u011b postav\u00edte, bude chovat agresivn\u011b a bude se sna\u017eit v\u00e1s zastra\u0161ovat, sni\u017eovat va\u0161i odbornost, st\u011b\u017eovat si na v\u00e1s apod. K\u00a0dovednostem u\u010ditele pat\u0159\u00ed mimo jin\u00e9 i schopnost vyrovnat se s\u00a0faktem, \u017ee nebudete obl\u00edben\u00ed u v\u0161ech rodi\u010d\u016f. S\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdmi m\u016f\u017eete diskutovat, jin\u00ed v\u00e1s poslouchat nebudou.<\/p>\n<p>\u00da\u010dinn\u00e9 je, pokud vyc\u00edt\u00edte p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 ochra\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, zkusit naj\u00edt s\u00a0jeho rodi\u010dem spole\u010dnou \u0159e\u010d. Pozorn\u011b si jej vyslechnout, ocenit jeho z\u00e1jem o d\u00edt\u011b, ubezpe\u010dit jej, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b v\u00a0mnoha sm\u011brech \u0161ikovn\u00e9, \u017ee na n\u011bj opravdu d\u00e1v\u00e1te pozor a v\u011bnujete se jak jemu, tak i vztah\u016fm ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b apod. \u00dazkostn\u00fd rodi\u010d se toti\u017e pot\u0159ebuje opakovan\u011b uji\u0161\u0165ovat o tom, \u017ee je jeho d\u00edt\u011b po v\u0161ech str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch v\u00a0bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Ve chv\u00edli, kdy z\u00a0v\u00e1s nebude c\u00edtit porozum\u011bn\u00ed, m\u00edra jeho vnit\u0159n\u00ed \u00fazkosti a obav vzroste. Pokud se v\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed jej opakovan\u011b uklidnit, \u017ee se o d\u00edt\u011b dob\u0159e star\u00e1te a ve\u0161ker\u00e9 obavy berete v\u00e1\u017en\u011b, m\u00e1te \u0161anci z\u00edskat si jeho d\u016fv\u011bru a sn\u00ed\u017eit tak frekvenci jeho z\u00e1sah\u016f do va\u0161\u00ed pr\u00e1ci a do d\u011bn\u00ed ve \u0161kole \u010di t\u0159\u00edd\u011b. N\u011bkdy ale naraz\u00edte na neodbytn\u00e9ho rodi\u010de a tam je jedin\u00fdm mo\u017en\u00fdm \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm vymezen\u00ed p\u0159esn\u00e9ho \u010dasu, kdy se mu budete v\u011bnovat. Frekvenci i d\u00e9lku sch\u016fzek si stanovte sami a nebojte se rodi\u010di opakovat, jak\u00e1 je va\u0161e pracovn\u00ed doba a s\u00a0kolika d\u011btmi a rodi\u010di jste opakovan\u011b v\u00a0kontaktu. I zde se sna\u017ete b\u00fdt vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00ed, naslouchat obav\u00e1m \u010di p\u0159ipom\u00ednk\u00e1m rodi\u010de a m\u00e1-li na v\u00e1s nerealistick\u00e9 po\u017eadavky, ukazujte mu, kam by v\u00e1s jejich napl\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed vedlo v\u00a0re\u00e1ln\u00e9 situaci, pop\u0159. mu polo\u017ete ot\u00e1zku, jak by ur\u010dit\u00e9 situace na va\u0161em m\u00edst\u011b \u0159e\u0161il on. Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 neur\u00e1\u017eet rodi\u010de ani jeho d\u00edt\u011b, nenechat se vyprovokovat k\u00a0tomu, abyste v\u00a0afektu upozor\u0148ovali na negativa d\u00edt\u011bte, proto\u017ee to by byl konec ve\u0161ker\u00e9 konstruktivn\u00ed komunikace i d\u016fv\u011bry. I ve vypjat\u00fdch debat\u00e1ch je va\u0161im \u00fakolem obh\u00e1jit sebe a sv\u00e9 postupy, vyt\u00fd\u010dit hranice, za n\u011b\u017e nejste ochotni j\u00edt (s ohledem na sebe, d\u00edt\u011b, i ostatn\u00ed d\u011bti), vymezit a od\u016fvodnit po\u017eadavky, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1te a zd\u016fraznit rodi\u010di, \u017ee vy jste odborn\u00edk s\u00a0prax\u00ed, kter\u00fd je za sv\u00e9 postupy zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd. Va\u0161\u00edm \u00fakolem nen\u00ed pou\u010dovat rodi\u010de, jak m\u00e1 vychov\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Je to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, ale je to tak. Shrnu-li to, usilujte o porozum\u011bn\u00ed a spolupr\u00e1ci, ale hl\u00eddejte si sv\u016fj osobn\u00ed prostor, abyste s\u00a0rodi\u010dem netr\u00e1vili v\u00edce \u010dasu, ne\u017e je nutn\u00e9 a ne\u017e je v\u00e1m p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9. Tam, kde to rodi\u010d odm\u00edt\u00e1 respektovat, bu\u010fte asertivn\u00ed. Ale to u\u017e je jin\u00e9 t\u00e9ma\u2026<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159eji v\u00e1m hodn\u011b rozumn\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f a d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 um\u00ed padat, prohr\u00e1vat, ale i vst\u00e1vat, nevzd\u00e1vat se a br\u00e1t ohledy na ostatn\u00ed, v\u010detn\u011b v\u00e1s. &#x1f60a;<\/p>\n<h3>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee rodi\u010d p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 orientovan\u00fd na sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, je jedn\u00edm z\u00a0probl\u00e9m\u016f doby, v\u00a0n\u00ed\u017e \u017eijeme. P\u0159\u00ed\u010din, pro\u010d se nadm\u011brn\u00e1 v\u00e1zanost na d\u00edt\u011b vyvine, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt cel\u00e1 \u0159ada. Jak se k\u00a0tomu m\u00e1me jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 postavit?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":3679,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3676"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3676"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3716,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3676\/revisions\/3716"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}