{"id":3662,"date":"2019-11-22T11:32:18","date_gmt":"2019-11-22T10:32:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/?p=3662"},"modified":"2019-11-22T14:17:21","modified_gmt":"2019-11-22T13:17:21","slug":"vazne-i-nevazne-skolni-paradoxy-ocima-psychologa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/2019\/11\/22\/vazne-i-nevazne-skolni-paradoxy-ocima-psychologa\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00c1\u017dN\u00c9 I NEV\u00c1\u017dN\u00c9 \u0160KOLN\u00cd PARADOXY o\u010dima psychologa"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528{\n-webkit-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n-moz-border-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div class='flex_column av-av_one_full-1e26125d131ba13f1accaa8241be1528 av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  avia-builder-el-no-sibling  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-k39z85sq-204b4d125200aa0957b9c228aa589f14'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h1><strong>V\u00c1\u017dN\u00c9 I NEV\u00c1\u017dN\u00c9 \u0160KOLN\u00cd PARADOXY o\u010dima psychologa<\/strong><\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li>\u010c\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b m\u00e1te sil, t\u00edm v\u00edce je v\u00e1m t\u0159eba humoru. Tot\u00e9\u017e plat\u00ed v\u00a0souvislosti s\u00a0bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edc\u00edmi se t\u0159\u00eddn\u00edmi sch\u016fzkami.<\/li>\n<li>P\u0159\u00edmou \u00fam\u011brnost pochop\u00edte nejl\u00e9pe ve \u0161kole, \u017eel \u010dasto mimo hodiny matematiky. Popisuje fakt, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm v\u00edce pot\u0159ebujete mluvit s\u00a0rodi\u010dem n\u011bkter\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka, t\u00edm usilovn\u011bji se v\u00e1m vyh\u00fdb\u00e1. Rodi\u010de sna\u017eiv\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1k\u016f tuto geneticky p\u0159edanou vlastnost dokl\u00e1daj\u00ed vlastn\u00edm poctiv\u00fdm uji\u0161\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00edm se u v\u0161ech va\u0161ich koleg\u016f, \u017ee je jejich d\u00edt\u011b kladn\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1no cel\u00fdm pedagogick\u00fdm sborem, kter\u00fd dan\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b u\u010d\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>U\u010ditel nerovn\u00e1 se krotitel! Ten druh\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee pr\u00e1sknout bi\u010dem, ten prvn\u00ed v\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00e9 dob\u011b nepr\u00e1skne u\u017e ani t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed knihou. (A pokud pr\u00e1skne, je to v\u00fdrazn\u011b dra\u017e\u0161\u00ed. Cena sou\u010dasn\u00e9 t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed knihy v\u00a0po\u010d\u00edta\u010di se toti\u017e zv\u00fd\u0161ila oproti t\u00e9 pap\u00edrov\u00e9 verzi mnohem v\u00fdrazn\u011bji, ne\u017e plat u\u010ditele v\u00a0pr\u016fb\u011bhu stejn\u00e9ho \u010dasov\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed).<\/li>\n<li>Zub \u010di hlava v\u00e1s rozbol\u00ed z\u00e1sadn\u011b v\u00a0t\u011bch dnech, kdy nem\u00e1te napl\u00e1novanou \u017e\u00e1dnou velkou p\u00edsemku, ale chyst\u00e1te se prob\u00edrat nov\u00e9 u\u010divo. (Chyst\u00e1te-li se zkou\u0161et, rovnou na to zapome\u0148te! Ani ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed raub\u00ed\u0159 ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b za v\u00e1\u0161 zub opravdu nem\u016f\u017ee).<\/li>\n<li>Zn\u00e1mkujte velkoryse. Existuje ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra pravd\u011bpodobnosti, \u017ee budete ve stejnou velkorysost doufat ve chv\u00edli, kdy v\u00e1m bude v\u00e1\u0161 sou\u010dasn\u00fd \u017e\u00e1k v budoucnosti zhotovovat prot\u00e9zu \u010di m\u011bnit ky\u010deln\u00ed kloub.<\/li>\n<li>Pokud jste na sob\u011b zpozorovali zoufalstv\u00ed p\u0159i zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159edm\u011bt v\u016fbec nebav\u00ed, zkuste tuto situaci psychologicky \u201ep\u0159er\u00e1movat\u201c a radovat se z n\u00ed. S velkou pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed jej toti\u017e za p\u00e1r let nebudete m\u00edt u vedlej\u0161\u00edho stolu v kabinet\u011b. (Zcela vylou\u010dit to ov\u0161em nelze. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jedinci mohou zam\u00ed\u0159it dokonce i na vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed pozice na va\u0161em pracovi\u0161ti. Ob\u010das to toti\u017e nen\u00ed ot\u00e1zka schopnost\u00ed, ale sebev\u011bdom\u00ed).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k3a03f1z-815406257e6767a9334f11245b851bed\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-k3a03f1z-815406257e6767a9334f11245b851bed{\nheight:25px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-k3a03f1z-815406257e6767a9334f11245b851bed hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_image '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k3a05ucc-129ff4fd756fe5181af7e28fbdccbad3\">\n.avia-image-container.av-k3a05ucc-129ff4fd756fe5181af7e28fbdccbad3 img.avia_image{\nbox-shadow:none;\n}\n.avia-image-container.av-k3a05ucc-129ff4fd756fe5181af7e28fbdccbad3 .av-image-caption-overlay-center{\ncolor:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='avia-image-container av-k3a05ucc-129ff4fd756fe5181af7e28fbdccbad3 av-styling- avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img class='wp-image-3663 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-3663 avia_image ' src='https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/shutterstock_1078642316_blog.png' alt='' title='shutterstock_1078642316_blog'  height=\"641\" width=\"1000\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\"  \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-k3a03nyd-8cc116eadc451fa877a4acd4445bfed0\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-k3a03nyd-8cc116eadc451fa877a4acd4445bfed0{\nheight:25px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-k3a03nyd-8cc116eadc451fa877a4acd4445bfed0 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-4  el_after_av_image  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-k3a042u1-031ccea278184ba44a9296a1a108fdc7'  itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><ul>\n<li>M\u00edv\u00e1te n\u011bkdy pocit, \u017ee nikdo nevid\u00ed a neocen\u00ed, co v\u0161echno v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci d\u011bl\u00e1te? Uklidn\u00edm v\u00e1s. M\u00e1te pravdu. Jen to nen\u00ed pocit, ale fakt.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00e1te velk\u00fd el\u00e1n do pr\u00e1ce? Super, ale opatrn\u011b s\u00a0n\u00edm. Mnoho va\u0161ich koleg\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se u\u017e jen plou\u017e\u00ed pod\u00e9l zd\u00ed nebo k\u0159i\u010d\u00ed na d\u011bti, jej m\u011blo kdysi tak\u00e9.<\/li>\n<li>Nab\u00eddka nov\u00fdch a lep\u0161\u00edch u\u010debnic doraz\u00ed neomyln\u011b pot\u00e9, co dokon\u010d\u00edte posledn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpravy k\u00a0t\u00e9 p\u016fvodn\u00ed. U jazykov\u00fdch u\u010debnic to pot\u011b\u0161\u00ed dvojn\u00e1sob, jeliko\u017e pravd\u011bpodobnost, \u017ee byste s\u00a0novou gramatikou a novou slovn\u00ed z\u00e1sobou je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkdy mohli vyu\u017e\u00edt cvi\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e1 jste si p\u0159ipravili pro 5. lekci v\u00a0t\u00e9 star\u00e9, se bl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed nule.<\/li>\n<li>Ud\u011bl\u00edte-li d\u00edt\u011bti v\u00a0hodin\u011b n\u011bjak\u00fd trest, hroz\u00ed v\u00e1m, \u017ee dal\u0161\u00ed p\u0159est\u00e1vka u\u017e p\u011bkn\u00e1 nebude. Pro\u010d? Star\u0161\u00ed generace \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 o n\u011bkom, kdo jde na WC, \u017ee si jde zavolat. Mlad\u0161\u00ed generace v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee jde na WC, a p\u0159itom si jde zavolat. Rodi\u010de maj\u00ed \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm rychlej\u0161\u00ed auta a jsou \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm v\u00edce p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed o tom, \u017ee v\u00e1m mus\u00ed radit, jak m\u00e1te pracovat. Mnoz\u00ed bytostn\u011b nesn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed, kdy\u017e rozv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00edm se osobnostem jejich potomk\u016f nastav\u00edte jak\u00e9koliv hranice. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed ani nepl\u00fdtvaj\u00ed \u010dasem, aby si za v\u00e1mi zajeli a jako\u017eto \u201eodchovanci\u201c televizn\u00edho programu \u201eVolejte \u0159editeli\u201c prost\u011b volaj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Smutn\u00e9 je to, \u017ee va\u0161i l\u00e1sku k\u00a0d\u011btem n\u011bkdy nejv\u00edce likviduj\u00ed jejich rodi\u010de a l\u00e1sku k\u00a0u\u010den\u00ed p\u0159edpisy, co a jak m\u00e1te u\u010dit a jak\u00fdmi slovesy m\u00e1te danou \u010dinnost do r\u016fzn\u00fdch dokument\u016f popsat.<\/li>\n<li>\u010cas je relativn\u00ed, stejn\u011b jako slova <em>\u201eu\u017e\u201c <\/em>a <em>\u201eje\u0161t\u011b\u201c<\/em>. M\u00e1te-li p\u0159ed sebou na konci pololet\u00ed u\u017e jen posledn\u00ed dv\u011b hodiny, zb\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed do uzav\u0159en\u00ed zn\u00e1mek, vid\u00ed rodi\u010d je\u0161t\u011b cel\u00fdch 90 minut, v\u00a0nich\u017e m\u016f\u017eete se zn\u00e1mkou jeho d\u00edt\u011bte (za p\u011btim\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed pr\u00e1ci) n\u011bco ud\u011blat.<\/li>\n<li>U\u010ditel\u00e9 jsou kouzeln\u00edci. Um\u00ed toti\u017e spojit vlastn\u00ed pracovn\u00ed p\u0159est\u00e1vku s\u00a0dozorem, dodr\u017eovat u\u010debn\u00ed pl\u00e1ny, a p\u0159itom se p\u0159izp\u016fsobit z\u00e1jmu d\u011bt\u00ed a jejich pot\u0159eb\u00e1m (t\u0159eba pot\u0159eb\u011b d\u00e9le vysv\u011btlovat \u010di opakovat), b\u00fdt d\u016fsledn\u00ed a spravedliv\u00ed v\u016f\u010di v\u0161em, a p\u0159itom respektovat individualitu, m\u00edru schopnost\u00ed a pracovn\u00ed tempo ka\u017ed\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, dok\u00e1\u017eou dodr\u017eovat vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00ed pl\u00e1ny s\u00a0d\u016frazem na z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed dovednost\u00ed a ne znalost\u00ed, a p\u0159itom kupodivu i p\u0159edat znalosti, kter\u00e9 jsou n\u00e1sledn\u011b vy\u017eadov\u00e1ny p\u0159i plo\u0161n\u00e9m testov\u00e1n\u00ed \u00farovn\u011b \u017e\u00e1k\u016f a student\u016f. Um\u00ed u\u010dit, vychov\u00e1vat, usm\u011br\u0148ovat, psychicky podporovat, soci\u00e1ln\u011b za\u010dle\u0148ovat, vytv\u00e1\u0159et vhodn\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky, napl\u0148ovat specifick\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a navzdory tlaku a stresu je\u0161t\u011b mnoz\u00ed pracuj\u00ed s\u00a0\u00fasm\u011bvem a trp\u011blivost\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>A t\u00edmto se vrac\u00edme op\u011bt k\u00a0prvn\u00edmu bodu. \u010c\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b m\u00e1te sil, t\u00edm v\u00edce je v\u00e1m pot\u0159eba humoru. Usm\u011bjte se nad pap\u00edrov\u00e1n\u00edm i lidskou hloupost\u00ed a z\u00e1vist\u00ed. Vy sami v\u00edte, \u017ee va\u0161e pr\u00e1ce m\u00e1 smysl. Toto p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed si nenechejte nik\u00fdm vz\u00edt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Mgr. et Mgr. Eva Martin\u00e1kov\u00e1<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K profesi u\u010ditele je n\u011bkdy pot\u0159eba p\u0159istupovat s notnou d\u00e1vkou humoru. Aby v\u00e1m \u0161koln\u00ed rok l\u00e9pe ub\u00edhal, p\u0159ipravili jsme pro v\u00e1s \u010dl\u00e1nek V\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 i nev\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 \u0161koln\u00ed paradoxy o\u010dima psychologa. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":3663,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3662"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3662"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3662\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3674,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3662\/revisions\/3674"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3662"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3662"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klett.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3662"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}